ā£ā ā Today is my 34th birthday.ā ā And It would be easy to sulk and feel sorry for myself.ā ā Yes, Iām alone.ā ā Yes, Iām single. ā ā Yes, I donāt have any kids (yet).ā ā But here is a valuable truth Iāve learned to embody that has completely turned my life around:ā ā šš½ Being single is NOT a problem to be fixed and how I choose to live my life isā no ones business but my own.ā ā BOOM.ā ā Simple, I know. But life changing.ā ā Do I want to get married one day? Yes.ā ā Have kids? Sure. ā ā But the truth of the matter is that these events should not be contingent off your age. ā ā Being single has absolutely NOTHING to do with your worth. ā ā For me, this span of single-hood has taught me that I donāt need anyone else to validate or complete me. And that shit is EMPOWERING. ā ā For years, I compared myself to other women my age and felt shitty because I didnāt have certain things they had.ā ā But hereās what I came to realize: my life isnāt meant to look like everyone elseās.ā ā And I want you to know that too; there are no rules in this life. Comparing yourself to anyone elseās journey will get you literally nowhere.ā ā Sure, people are going to judge you (trust me, I know), but youāve got to remember something: you donāt owe anyone an explanation. No one has been through the shit youāve been through and walked a mile in your shoes, therefore, they canāt speak for you.ā ā So just remember....ā ā Your age is your age. ā ā And your journey is your own. ā ā Wherever you are in yours, I hope you always choose to fully embrace your unique path, to find your own happiness, and to never settle for anything less than you deserve. ā ā Cheers to 34. Like a fine wine, we only getting better baby! š„ šā ā ā šø @tylergust10